Based on Jay Carter, the writer of Nasty Men, every man almost has the same way to know his couple closer and pick Ms. Right.
Ask your activities
You decoy his heart successfully, the first impression is o attempt. He is curious, want to know about you more. While he always look at you, with his shoulder a little bit inclined, he will ask “What makes you busy now?, or “what are you doing now”
Actually, it is an easy and standard question. You do not have to reply with proper answer to increase your sold value in his eyes. Do not ever answer “I have no activities for now, if I do not go for work, I will be at home all day long”, this answer will make you look sadden in his eyes. He will think that you have no social life and there is no friend that wants to accompany you. He will also think that if he makes you as his couple, you will control his life. You will always stick him everywhere he goes. That kind of woman is very avoided by him.
But do not also mention all of your long activity lists, from have a cup of coffee with your friends, go to party in every places, until reunion with your kindergarten friends. He will think that you are the miss busy that will have no time for a date. Just tell or two activities that describe you are an active women but still has time for yourself and him.
Tell you about his ex girl friends
When your relationship gets closer, basically after you have a date for two or three times, he will start to open himself. Slowly, he will tell about himself, included women that have ever stayed in his heart. He may a little bit “show off” by mention some of his ex girl friends and give impression that he still have relationship with them, even still save their pictures.
Your ear gets hot, it can be, but do not keep your heart gets hot too and makes your words uncontrolled. Do not until you show your annoyance, moreover if your face is sullen and then you say “Is that important your ex girl friends for you, maybe you are still in love with them”
This answer will make them think that you have a big jealously. If to ex girl friends you get jealous, how if it to his friends and girl friends? So hold back your jealously. Show that you’re confident and seemed that you do not care of it, even if he still makes a friend with his ex girl friends. It will show your maturity that you can differ to whom you can jealous or not.
Outgeneral date
If he starts to have the description about you, moreover after some dates, he feels comfortable to be close to you, but it is not enough to make him sure that you are the Ms. Right. He wants to know you closer. It is not enough with 1-2 dinner or watch movie, and in a comfortable condition. Standard date can be done by everyone.
He wants to see you from different side. That is why, he asks you to an outgeneral date, like have a rapid cross, hiking, or off road. When he asks you to a date like this, do not refuse directly and say “why do not have a date in a mall”, your answers will state that you are not an adaptable person. Do not like change. Whereas, he just want to know whether you enjoy to be in a natural environment, do not care you like it or not, you will be comfortable with him. so it will be better for you to reply him by saying “great, it will be fun to be in natural environment with you”.
Take a look on your reaction
For most men, either bad guy types or nice guy types, want to have a couple with nice heart. One way to know it is by watch on your reaction when you see on social condition around you and interact with other people. How is your reaction when you see beggar in a road, or do you remember to say thanks to a waitress who serves your menu in a restaurant?
When he sees on your positive reaction, he will think, to other you can be so care, how if it to him and your close friends. So show your empathy, but remember, so not pretend to do it or show it too over. Because, not like you, he will know what you do is honest or not.
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