1. When you and him have a conversation, what is the expression he shows?
a. He smiles while talking sometime shows his white teeth.
b. Just general expression, but his attitudes seem restless.
c. General, sometime smile sometime can be so serious.
d. Straight face, does he smile or hold toothache?

2. along that conversation, do you and him see each other?
a. He always see me, and his smile get wider and wider.
b.He tries to look at me, but once every seconds, he always see to other direction.
c. like general talking, once see each other, but the other time also see on other direction
d.no eye contact, he often to see others while talking.
3. How is his sit position when he is around you?
a. he always sits in front of me. When he lifts his leg, the knee also directed to me.
b. General sitting, directed to me.
c. Well, I never concern on it.
d. just general sitting, sometime next to me, sometime behind me.

4. When he congratulate for the accomplishment you jus achieved, he will act like this…
a. Hold your hands tightly with his hands, and take longer time when he wants to release your hands.
b. Same like a, but he does it with one hand.
c. Say congratulation and shake your hands or pats yor shoulder.
d. Say congratulation without have to shake your hands.

5. When you and him stand in the middle of other partners, his position will be…
a. He stands close to me, with his shoulder directed to me.
b. Wherever he stands, his shoulder always directed to me.
c. He always change his position, depends with him he talks.
d. I do not know, we are seldom in a same team.

6. Generally, his attitudes to you sometime…
a. Always find a way to talk to you.
b. Sometime he is shy, but always asks my condition.
c. sometime enthusiastic, like he wants to show something.
d. Same with to other partners..

7. When you meet him deliberately in shopping center, he will act…
a. directly says hi and gets close to you. He always offers to accompany you.
b. Get close to you, have a conversation for a while, and leaves you even it is seemed that he does not want to.
c.call you from distance with loud voice.
d. Just Say hi.

A. STRONG CHEMISTRY
he gets interested to you. Even you do not know him that much, but seemed the chemistry between you is strong enough, even limited in interested in the attitudes, but it is enough to step to next relationship. If you are curious, you can ask him to go for a date first. You have predicted his answer right?

B. PUSSYFOOT BUT HE WANTS TOO
Not only female, some males also sometime feel shy to show that they are interested to someone. Basically it happens because their introvert character or have no experience in having a relationship. But, if you are not too sure with him, get close to him as a friend. After that, you can consider on the next step.

C. CLICKS AS A FRIEND
you and him have similarity that makes you click each other. But, it is not love, relax and have a good relationship with him as a friend. Get a best friend is an amazing gift. Moreover, if you have watched a film of When Harry Met Sally, of course you will know that friendship can increase to be a love relationship, right?

D. NOT CHOSEN TYPE
I’m sorry, maybe this time he has other woman in his heart. That is why he does not send you love signal. Or maybe, you are not his type. Relax, there are still a lot of women in this world who will be ready to send his love signal next time. Even not as boy friend, who knows he will be your best friend.

Take a look when he comes late for an hour then give classic reason such as trapped in a traffic jam. Then if you ask him about his previous relationship, he will be nervous and see his watch and change the conversation topic. What should you do when you start to doubt on his honesty.

* forget TV program
TV never stops show story about crime. Even an expert psychologist is hard to “read” whether someone lie or not. Rather than you get confused read someone’s face, it will better for you to learn his character shown in a conversation between you and him.

* Ask questions
ask him about his roman in the past, listen carefully what he says, if he blame him ex girl friend more, he is included as irresponsible person. That kind of person tends to lie, not only about ex girl friend. If he says that he stop working because his boss is bad, you have to be careful.

* Do not deceived
if you accept his falsehood, be ready to hear a lot of apologizes from him. this kind of person will often try to perform like he does the honest things and acts full of empathy. If he found out lie, he will defend by saying, he is not brave to say to you and try to persuade you so that you do not get angry and says that you are the only woman who can understand him then he will promise that he will not do it again.

* Do not drowsy
A psychopath is someone with personality disturbance by showing extra antisocial attitude, he does not only like to break rules, but also always ask for your help. That is why, if your date ask you to go to cinema without buy tickets, do not surprise if he likes to lie.

* Know when to decide
A lie must be follow by another lie, if your date betray you once, you may can not asses it as wrong understanding or mistake. But if he does many, it means you date ith a liar.

* Do not blame on yourself
Take a look a lot of women tend o blame on their selves after involve in a relationship with a liar because based on them, it should be known from the start. Lie is hard to be detected. That is why, you can not too hard to yourself. Save yourself from a liar and back to your life without you have to blame on yourself.

Actually, it is an easy and standard question. You do not have to reply with proper answer to increase your sold value in his eyes. Do not ever answer “I have no activities for now, if I do not go for work, I will be at home all day long”, this answer will make you look sadden in his eyes. He will think that you have no social life and there is no friend that wants to accompany you. He will also think that if he makes you as his couple, you will control his life. You will always stick him everywhere he goes. That kind of woman is very avoided by him.
But do not also mention all of your long activity lists, from have a cup of coffee with your friends, go to party in every places, until reunion with your kindergarten friends. He will think that you are the miss busy that will have no time for a date. Just tell or two activities that describe you are an active women but still has time for yourself and him.
Tell you about his ex girl friends
When your relationship gets closer, basically after you have a date for two or three times, he will start to open himself. Slowly, he will tell about himself, included women that have ever stayed in his heart. He may a little bit “show off” by mention some of his ex girl friends and give impression that he still have relationship with them, even still save their pictures.
Your ear gets hot, it can be, but do not keep your heart gets hot too and makes your words uncontrolled. Do not until you show your annoyance, moreover if your face is sullen and then you say “Is that important your ex girl friends for you, maybe you are still in love with them”
This answer will make them think that you have a big jealously. If to ex girl friends you get jealous, how if it to his friends and girl friends? So hold back your jealously. Show that you’re confident and seemed that you do not care of it, even if he still makes a friend with his ex girl friends. It will show your maturity that you can differ to whom you can jealous or not.
Outgeneral date
If he starts to have the description about you, moreover after some dates, he feels comfortable to be close to you, but it is not enough to make him sure that you are the Ms. Right. He wants to know you closer. It is not enough with 1-2 dinner or watch movie, and in a comfortable condition. Standard date can be done by everyone.
He wants to see you from different side. That is why, he asks you to an outgeneral date, like have a rapid cross, hiking, or off road. When he asks you to a date like this, do not refuse directly and say “why do not have a date in a mall”, your answers will state that you are not an adaptable person. Do not like change. Whereas, he just want to know whether you enjoy to be in a natural environment, do not care you like it or not, you will be comfortable with him. so it will be better for you to reply him by saying “great, it will be fun to be in natural environment with you”.
Take a look on your reaction
For most men, either bad guy types or nice guy types, want to have a couple with nice heart. One way to know it is by watch on your reaction when you see on social condition around you and interact with other people. How is your reaction when you see beggar in a road, or do you remember to say thanks to a waitress who serves your menu in a restaurant?
When he sees on your positive reaction, he will think, to other you can be so care, how if it to him and your close friends. So show your empathy, but remember, so not pretend to do it or show it too over. Because, not like you, he will know what you do is honest or not.

1. When you and him have a conversation, what is the expression he shows?
a. He smiles while talking sometime shows his white teeth.
b. Just general expression, but his attitudes seem restless.
c. General, sometime smile sometime can be so serious.
d. Straight face, does he smile or hold toothache?

2. along that conversation, do you and him see each other?
a. He always see me, and his smile get wider and wider.
b.He tries to look at me, but once every seconds, he always see to other direction.
c. like general talking, once see each other, but the other time also see on other direction
d.no eye contact, he often to see others while talking.
3. How is his sit position when he is around you?
a. he always sits in front of me. When he lifts his leg, the knee also directed to me.
b. General sitting, directed to me.
c. Well, I never concern on it.
d. just general sitting, sometime next to me, sometime behind me.

4. When he congratulate for the accomplishment you jus achieved, he will act like this…
a. Hold your hands tightly with his hands, and take longer time when he wants to release your hands.
b. Same like a, but he does it with one hand.
c. Say congratulation and shake your hands or pats yor shoulder.
d. Say congratulation without have to shake your hands.

5. When you and him stand in the middle of other partners, his position will be…
a. He stands close to me, with his shoulder directed to me.
b. Wherever he stands, his shoulder always directed to me.
c. He always change his position, depends with him he talks.
d. I do not know, we are seldom in a same team.

6. Generally, his attitudes to you sometime…
a. Always find a way to talk to you.
b. Sometime he is shy, but always asks my condition.
c. sometime enthusiastic, like he wants to show something.
d. Same with to other partners..

7. When you meet him deliberately in shopping center, he will act…
a. directly says hi and gets close to you. He always offers to accompany you.
b. Get close to you, have a conversation for a while, and leaves you even it is seemed that he does not want to.
c.call you from distance with loud voice.
d. Just Say hi.

A. STRONG CHEMISTRY
he gets interested to you. Even you do not know him that much, but seemed the chemistry between you is strong enough, even limited in interested in the attitudes, but it is enough to step to next relationship. If you are curious, you can ask him to go for a date first. You have predicted his answer right?

B. PUSSYFOOT BUT HE WANTS TOO
Not only female, some males also sometime feel shy to show that they are interested to someone. Basically it happens because their introvert character or have no experience in having a relationship. But, if you are not too sure with him, get close to him as a friend. After that, you can consider on the next step.

C. CLICKS AS A FRIEND
you and him have similarity that makes you click each other. But, it is not love, relax and have a good relationship with him as a friend. Get a best friend is an amazing gift. Moreover, if you have watched a film of When Harry Met Sally, of course you will know that friendship can increase to be a love relationship, right?

D. NOT CHOSEN TYPE
I’m sorry, maybe this time he has other woman in his heart. That is why he does not send you love signal. Or maybe, you are not his type. Relax, there are still a lot of women in this world who will be ready to send his love signal next time. Even not as boy friend, who knows he will be your best friend.

Based on wedding expert and book writer of Getting the Love You Want, Harville Hendrix, Ph.D, the decreasing of love happens because we often do and think negative things, for example, critic him, angry, and blame each other.

Based brain storming done by Hendrix, as a response to negative things we do, in the brain will form a new nerve connection. “It is not only damage your brain, but also your relationship”, he said. “If you let it, a lot of couples choose to break up”

to avoid it, Hendrix suggests you to attune think positive. “the more you focus on something, the more you get”, he said. To help you keep focus, he designed a train called by positive flooding, consists of three steps.

1. Start with write all you admire from him. Ask him to do the same things, and then exchange it to read by each of you.

2. Now, each of you make a list about any things or quality that want to be appreciated more by you couple. For example you write “I want you to say that you like my body”, or he writes “I want you to appreciate how hard effort to work for family”

3. Continue this activity by make some lists that you want, as positive as possible.

By always focus on positive things both of you can learn to do something that is not objected by your couple. In this stage, you and he finally can show appreciation, empathy, and veracity to improve a romantic and happy relationship.

Well, if you just sit all day long, almost never move your body, add by your hobby to eat snack, it will be difficult for you to burn the calorie in your body. Can you imagine what happen in the next 2-3 years? Well, to make that nightmare does not become reality, follow these following steps during your working hours.

1. Snacks
a lot of people like to eat snack while sit in front of the computer. If you one of them, be careful. It will better for you to bring fruits and vegetables plus chutney and tomato sauce from your house. It is suggested for you to not to p:ace it in the desk, but save it a place that you can not seen directly so that you do not tempted. If this strategy does not work, bring snack with proper portion.

2. Enough drinking
with eat healthy food, do not forget to drink water at least 8 glasses during you in the office. Place glass and the a bottle full with fresh mineral water on your desk.

3. Set your lunch
schedule your lunch time, you can eat some part of your lunch on 11.30, then around 3.00 o’clock in the afternoon, if you feel hungry, eat the rest. Schedule your lunch to avoid eat too much/. It will be better if you bring your lunch from home so that you can control the portion and know exactly the calorie consumed.

4. Limit the portion
by preparing your lunch portion, you can control the portion. You have to know portion for meals prepared. For example, 1 ones of meat is approximately as big as a thumb, pointed finger, and middle finger, 2 until 3 ones is approximately almost same with palm, and a cup of cereal or rice is approximately same with a lump of hand.

5. Move
move your body even just for a couple minutes. Stand up from your chair and move everytime you can do it. These are some advices.

- go for lunch in in a restaurant or canteen that is not too close from your office. Go by walking, do not drive your car.

- If you want to talk with your partner, rather than send an email or call, go to his desk nd talk directly.

- Park your car far from the office door

- schedule your time to go for sport likes you schedule appoinments with your client which means, you have to do it.

- place your dustbin far from your desk so that you have to walk to throw your garbage.

- Place your telephone far from your reach so that every time you have to answer a phone call, you can loosen muscle or even you have to stand to reach it.

6. Sport
move your body before you start and finish your job to balance your body which has less movement during you sit behind the desk. If your office is not too far from your house, it will be better for you to walk for go to the office and go home. If it can be done, rather than waste your time because of traffic jam, go fitness after working hours. In the same time you finish fitness, the traffic jam is over and you can arrive at home in the same time.
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7. Ask your partner to do diet with you
by doing this, you can support each other during working hours, together have healthy food in lunch, do sport together in a free time or after working hours.
- You can try to make a group of sport or gym. Who knows that the company will not mind to let one of its room used for gym and provide its tool, like dumber,

so, to make your relationship with the taciturn is not ended like them, take a look on these tips.

1. my couple is unique!
every individual is created with their own uniqueness. So that you and him. so, start to dig every uniqueness he has, it is included his hobby and what he likes. If he is too taciturn and introvert to tell about himself, find it through his daily activities. If he likes sport, offer him to do it together. If it is necessary, ask his close friends so that you will know who are his friends. Do not be lazy to joint his activities.
2. Know his friends
there is an aphorism says, the true form ourselves are reflected in our close friends who always color our life for a long time. Well, so does your couple. Know more about his friends. Find a time to know them and ask them to hang out together.
Sometime, dinner or lunch together can be done without him next to you. If you can know his friends closely. Start to dig any positive information about him that you have not known yet. So that, you will have a lot of conversation topic to be told with him deeper. Fishhook him to get out from his nest.
3. every things has two sides
once, on a relationship, you are drowsy by your own attitude. You are too focusing on yourself and your life. Seemed, that you are the only who need to be cared and heard all complain about your couple. Change soon! Everything has two side. But, all have to have mutualism symbiosis or connect each other.
Good communication works well if it is a two ways communication. Start to be a good fisher, focus your attention to him. Open a conversation with topic that he likes. Say, all men may crazy of football. Well, learn it and get your knowledge about this sport wider.
4. enjoy “silence”
not often, silence is a fun. So, do not antipasti with this attitude. After tired from all of your daily activities and jobs, sometime meet him is a tool to complain about our jobs in the office. If you often do that, soon, your relationship will become unhealthy, and only full of your complain.
Togetherness moments with his has to be spent by know each other. Laugh, or even silence but smile each other is a sign of your deepest love that you can do. It will give deeper meaning than talking much for shuck things. Silence, sometime can be a medicine to calm you down. Try it by yourself!

5. Enjoy slurping waves in the beach
get bored with your activity in the office, or another bustle, of course it needs much time, energy, and mind every day, even, your smile disappear fast. To return all the happiness, not as easy as turn your hands. If you force yourself or force him to keep smile, cheer up, and has a lot of fun things to be told, you are wrong! Every human need a condition called by take a break.
What can be done? Take a leave and have a holiday! Go to beach and be silence, listen to slurping of the waves with him. Relax and sink yourself with him in a silence condition accompanies by beach sands in your feet. Talk only about how beautiful the beach is, not others. Be disappeared in a silence. Calm yourself, follow the silence process of your couple and enjoy your vacation with him.
5. talk from heart to heart
if he is really a taciturn, it means you same with him too. It will be difficult to step to next level of relationship. If you are in this position but you want to struggle on your relationship, ask him to talk from heart to heart. Ask him without make him offended, what makes him so taciturn. So do you, be honest with him, what make you so silence with him.
sometime, people be taciturn because they feel shy, confuse, and scare if their couple will laugh on them, or consider that their stories are nothing, not confident, and there are still a lot of factors. So why do not you initiative first to ask him for a discussion and share the story behind his silence. After you know it, it will be easy for you to know him deeper so that make him comfortable have a conversation and share his story with you.

1. Slanting eyes
Solution: before use eyes shadows, use scott first, to make your eyelid looks bigger. Then, used eye shadow with light color, like baby pink, beige, and gold yellow. Use eyeliner, slight in upper eyelid.

2. Big eyes
Solution: use eye shadow with light and soft color like white, beige, pale pink, and void dark color to decrease fierce impression. Try to make the eye liner is not too high and use eyeliner with brown color.

3. Small eyes
Solution: to make it looks bigger, press on eye corner and use scott, smear eyeliner under the eye, exactly in lash line and add line in eye corner. Use eye shadow with dark color like brown and grey to give bigger effect.